INgoma yazo iiNgoma iqulethe le meko yothando:

"Uthando lunamandla njengokufa: inkanuko yokunganyangeki njengeShiyol; ukutshiswa kwayo kufana nokutsha komlilo, Idangatye likaYehova! Amanzi amaninzi akanakukwazi ukucima uthando; Imilambo ayinakho ukutshayela kude. (Nokuba) Ukuba indoda yayinika bonke ubutyebi bendlu yakhe ngenxa yothando, iya (okwangoku) igwetywe njengamafutha!" (Song 8:6-7)

Kunye nompostile uPawulos, Kwisahluko sakhe esaziwayo ngothando, ithi njalo…

"Zityhafile zonke izinto, ukholelwa zonke izinto, Ithemba Zonke izinto, Zinyamezele zonke izinto. Uthando soze lwehluleka." (1Cor 13:7-8)

Okwangoku, Ngawo onke amandla Aso kunye namandla onyamezelo, Uthando lunobuthathaka obungathandekiyo: ayinakunyanzela; Ngothando, ukuba luthando konke konke, kufuneka ibe lukhetho ngokuzithandela.

Ingxaki enkulu

Oku kubeka nabani na onyula indlela yothando kwindawo enkulu engalunganga.

Ndikhunjuzwa ngebali lebhodi yebhodi evakalisa isicatshulwa, "Abalulamileyo baya kuwudla ilifa umhlaba." Ngaphantsi kwayo yonke i-wag ibibhale, "Er ... ukuba kulungile nawe."

Inyani yile yokuba abo bagodukayo bayakusebenzisa nayiphi na indlela enokufumana indlela yabo - kwaye uninzi lwamandla anokusebenzisa, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba baphumelele.

Ekuqhubekeni, mhlawumbi - kodwa iyanele?

Uninzi lwethu lubona ukuba uthando luyindlela engcono. Kwaye uninzi lwethu lubambe ithemba lokuba uthando luya kuthi ekugqibeleni luphumelele. Nditsho nezona nkohliso zibi kakhulu zibonakala ziwe: Kodwa yindlela ende; Uninzi lubandezelekile kwaye lufe ngendlela. Kwaye ngexesha lomzabalazo, Kukangaphi kufuneka abenze i-quidars ibe sisizukulwana esilandelayo ngabacinezeli?

Ukulwa nothando, Ngaphandle kokutshabalalisa, yeyona nto inzima emhlabeni. Kanjalo, Ukulwa ukukhusela ilungelo lakhe lokufumana uthando lungabonakala ngathi luphikisana. Kodwa uninzi lwethu luza kuqwalasela ukuba umntu olwa, Emngciphekweni wokhuseleko lwabo kunye nentuthuzelo, Ukukhusela ilungelo labanye kukubonisa uthando kwifom ephezulu.

Nyukela, Intshatsheli

Kungenxa yoko le nto uthando lufuna intshatsheli-umntu olungele ukuthanda kwaye ubakhusela abanye ekubaleni. Kodwa intshatsheli, ukukhusela ababuthathaka, kufuneka kulungiselelwe ukugqobhoza abanamandla anyanzelisa ukusebenzisa inkululeko yabo yokuxhaphaza abanye. Ke uluphepha njani isityholo sokuba abe ngumcinezeli omtsha ngokukhanyela abaxhaphaza inkululeko yabo yokukhetha?

Jika nam mzuzu kwincwadi yeSityhilelo, Isahluko 5:

Ndabuya ndabona ngasekunene kowaye bahlala etroneni umsongo obhaliweyo ngamacala omabini kwaye watywinwa ngamatywina anesixhenxe. Kwaye ndabona ingelosi enamandla ebhengeza ngelizwi elikhulu, “Ngubani ofanelekileyo ukwaphula amatywina kwaye uvule i-scroll?”

… Ndalila kwaye ndalila kuba akukho namnye ofunyenwe ofanelekileyo ukuvula iscroll okanye ujonge ngaphakathi. Kwandula ke omnye kwabadala wathi kum, “Sukulila! Funda, Ingonyama yesizwe sakwaYuda, ingcambu kaDavid, ihlulekile. Uyakwazi ukuvula incwadi esongwayo kunye namatywina ayo anesixhenxe.” Ndabona imvana, ujonge ngokungathi ixheliwe…

Weza kwaye wathabatha umsongo … Kwaye xa wayeyithathile, Izidalwa ezine eziphilayo kunye nabadala abangamashumi amabini anesine bawa phambi kweMvana. … Kwaye bacula ingoma entsha: “Ufanele ukuthabatha umsongo kwaye uvule amatywina ayo, kuba ubulewe, Kwaye igazi lakho elithengise abantu ngoThixo kuzo zonke izizwe kunye nolwimi kunye nabantu nohlanga.” (Rev. 5:1-9, NIV, ifinyezwe)

Umsongo welo xesha umele umgwebo kaThixo ngabangendawo nengonyama ebonakala ngathi yigusha elixheliweyo nguYesu. Kodwa kutheni le yenye kuphela efanele ukuphumeza lo mgwebo?

Kulungile, kwaye ngokucacileyo ngokucacileyo, Kungenxa yokuba wancama ubomi bakhe ukuze sikwazi ukuxolelwa kwaye sibuyiselwe kubudlelwane noThixo – isenzo sothando olunyulu. Kwaye okwesibini kuba, Ukuphila kwaye kwabandezeleka njengendoda, Akukho mntu unokumxelela, "Awuqondi ukuba kufana nantoni na."

Kodwa kukho esinye isizathu.

Ijaji ekwicala lakho

Cinga okomzuzwana. Ukuba ubuza kutsalwa phambi kwejaji ukuze uphendule ngolwaphulo-mthetho lwakho, Ngaba awungekhe unethemba lokuba ngandlel 'ithile ithanda ukukuthanda kwaye ujonge indlela yokukufumana? NguYesu oyena mgwebi ugqibeleleyo unakho na imbambano egqibeleleyo kunye nentshatsheli yethu egqibeleleyo kuba akukho namnye umntu onokuze abe nolangazelelo ukukufumana njengoko enjalo.

Kudala ngaphambi kokuba ukhathalele (okanye abanye), Wayekuthanda ukuya kwi-holl, ukubandezeleka kwindawo yakho. Ukukwenza konke oko kuwe, Ngaba ucinga ukuba ngoku ungakhathali kwikamva lakho? Hayi! Ufuna into enye, Kwaye inye kuphela: Ubungqina bokuba uguqukile ebomini bakho bokuzingca ngobomi obuvela eluthandweni aye wagalela kuwe.