Ubudlelwane phakathi koThando kunye noBubi

Ubudlelwane phakathi koThando kunye noBubi

Enye indawo apho thina bantu sinokuthi ngokumangalisayo sibe ne-naïve ichaphazela ubunjani bobudlelwane phakathi 'kokulunga.’ kunye ‘nobubi.’ Kwezi zahluko siphonononga ubume bokwenyani kunye nonxulumano lokulunga, uthando, inkululeko, ukuzingca nokunganyaniseki ukuze kusincede siqonde isizathu sokuba le mibandela yokuziphatha ibe ngumphumo omkhulu kangaka ekukhanyeni kukanaphakade..

Cofa apha ukuze ubuyele esihogweni uPhumelela okanye eZulwini ukuhlawula, okanye kuyo nayiphi na izihloko ezingezantsi:

Izixhobo zilungiselelwe phantsi kwezi zihloko zilandelayo:

Cofa apha ukuze ubuyele esihogweni uPhumelela okanye eZulwini ukuhlawula, okanye kuyo nayiphi na imixholwana engezantsi:

  • Kutheni uThixo engqongqo kangaka?

    Kule mihla, kuninzi okuthethwa ngothando lukaYesu noxolelo kangangokuba sisoloko sifumana ingcamango yokuba unesimo sengqondo esikhululekileyo ngesono kunokuba uThixo wayenaso kwixesha elidlulileyo.. Kodwa, inyaniso, imigangatho yakhe inzima kakhulu.

    Ukuba uYesu uyasilumkisa ngesiphelo esinokubakho esibi ngaphezu kokufa, emva koko kufuneka sibuze, “Kutheni uThixo ethanda ukwenza izinto ngendlela egqibeleleyo?” Kutheni engazange avele adale ihlabathi apho sonke sithandane – okanye aphelise ububi ngaphandle kokuphelisa abo babubangeleyo? Ngokuqinisekileyo abantu abaninzi ababi kangako? Kwaye azinakuba ezimbi ngokwenene zipheliswe ngokungenantlungu? Ngaba imfundiso kaYesu yayibaxiwe, okanye ngaba asibuqondi ngokunzulu ubunzulu bemeko?

  • Ukungakwazi ukunyanzelwa uthando

    Alikho igama lesiNgesi elakha lathotywa ngendlela eyingozi ngaphezu ‘kothando.’ Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zokuziphatha okanye iimvakalelo esizibiza ngokuba ‘luthando’.; yaye ulwimi lwesiGrike lusebenzisa amagama aliqela awahlukeneyo ukuwahlula. Kodwa uthando lokwenene olufunwa nguThixo lulapho abantu khetha ukubeka iimfuno zabanye ngaphambi kwezabo. Olona tshaba lwayo asiyontiyo: kodwa ukuzicingela nokungakhathali. Ngaphandle kolu hlobo lothando, Izulu alinakuba lizulu.

    Kodwa zikho 2 iingxaki ezinkulu. Inokunyanzeliswa njani? Ukuba kukho umnyanzelisi, ukuphepha njani ukwenza oko kuba efuna ukuzicingela yena? Yaye umntu angenza njani ngenxa yothando ngaphandle kokuba ukhululekile ukuba angazikhetheli?

  • I-Evil's Vicious Spiral

    Amadoda ebesoloko elangazelela uluntu olunobulungisa ngokwenene. Okwangoku, ngaphandle kokuqhubela phambili okumangalisayo kwengqondo kunye nobuchwepheshe, impucuko isakhula kuphela ukuba idilike ibe sisiphithiphithi. Kwaye kuyafana kobethu ubomi. Ngoko yintoni ingxaki esisiseko? Ububi bokuzingca, njengomngxuma omnyama womxhuzulane, inohlobo lomtsalane kuthi; lo nto, kancinci kancinci, siqala ukuyinyamezela kwaye siyithethelele; uze ke uyikhusele, bathi, "Yileyo ndlela endiyiyo."

    Njengoko umthi ukhula, amasebe awo aqina; ngoko ihlala inamanqaku exesha layo elidlulileyo. Kunjalo ke nakuthi; siba yinto esiyikhethayo. UYesu wayesoloko ebacel’ umngeni abaphulaphuli bakhe ukuba benze ukhetho. Ngokukhetha indlela yethu endaweni yekaThixo, indalo yethu iyagqwetheka. Impembelelo embi eyonakalisayo isenza singalifanelanga izulu, kwaye iyasilawula ukusa kwinqanaba lokuba eyona mizamo yethu ilungileyo isishiya singakwazi ukukhululeka kuyo.

    Amava akho obunzulu oku kunokukuthatha kusenokuba nzima kakhulu okanye ngaphantsi kunam. Kodwa sonke sijamelene nesigwebo sokufa kwesi sifo sibulalayo ngokomoya. Akukho namnye kuthi ofunda oku onokuthi akubanga yimveliso yokhetho lwethu. Kwaye, phezu kwazo naziphi na iinzame zokuziphucula zokwexeshana esizenzayo, ekugqibeleni izinto ziya kuba mbi ngakumbi - ngaphandle kokuba uThixo ngokwakhe angenelele.

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