Mtima kwambiri Chikondi

Mu ndemanga pa positi yanga, ‘Chikondi Chimafunika Champion', Peter Kazmier anafunsa funso lochititsa chidwi. Ndinayamba kuyankha: koma ndinamaliza ndi china chake chomwe ndimawona kuti chinali chachitali kwambiri kuti ndingoyankha; ndipo anali, poyeneradi, zotheka kwambiri kuyambitsa zokambirana zambiri mwazokha. Choncho ndinaganiza zongolemba zina.

Apanso ndi Ndemanga ya Peter, ndi yankho langa:

"Kevin, Nthawi zina bambo ndi mwana wosagwirizana, Mwana yemwe amawongola ana enawo, ayenera kuchitapo kanthu kuti ayimitse mantha. Kodi mukuganiza kuti Mulungu amakumana ndi vuto lomwelo nafe? Kodi zochita za chitetezo chingachitike bwanji?? Chikondi, Nthawi zina chifukwa chofunikira, khalani ndi nkhope yayikulu?"

Inde, mosakayika. Pa mlingo wa munthu, vuto lalikulu likhoza kuganiziridwa pamene mwana wasanduka wankhanza (e.g. wakupha wankhanza kapena wachigawenga). Kenako zinthu zingachitike pamene bambo angapha mwana wake kuti asaphedwe. Kapena bambo, mu udindo wake monga woweruza kapena wolamulira wa anthu, angafunikire kupereka chilango chomaliza kwa mwana wake chifukwa cha zolakwa zimene anachita. Zochitika zoterezi ndizosowa, kupatulapo pamene chomangira cha chikondi cha atate ndi mwana chatha kale: koma ngati mtima wa atate ukhalabe wokhazikika pa mwanayo, ichi chingakhale chosankha chowawa kwambiri chimene atate anayenera kupanga..

Pali pafupifupi chitsanzo cha izi m'Baibulo. Mmodzi mwa ana a Mfumu Davide, Amnoni, anali ndi chidwi ndi mlongo wake, Tamara, ndipo anamaliza kumugwiririra. Koma Davide, mwinamwake mwina chifukwa cha manyazi chifukwa cha chigololo chake cham’mbuyo ndi Bateseba ndipo mwina chifukwa chokonda mwana wake wamwamuna., analephera kulanga Aminoni. Chotero mlongo wake wa Tamara, Abisalomu, anapha Amnoni asanathawire ku ukapolo. Tsopano Davide anasiya kukonda Abisalomu ndi udindo wake monga mfumu: kotero adabwereranso. + Pamenepo Abisalomu anakwiyira Davide kwambiri. Anayendetsa njira yake kubwerera kunyumba yachifumu, Kenako anakonza chiwembu chofuna kugonjetsa Davide. 20,000 anthu anafa pa nkhondoyo: koma chisoni chachikulu cha Davide chinali pa imfa ya Abisalomu. Nthawi yomweyo anayamba kulira maliro a mwana wake, mpaka mkulu wa asilikali ake anamudzudzula, kunena, “Lero mwachititsa manyazi amuna anu onse, amene mwapulumutsa kumene moyo wanu, wa ana anu aamuna ndi aakazi, ndi miyoyo ya akazi anu ndi adzakazi anu. Mumakonda amene amadana nanu ndipo mumadana ndi amene amakukondani. Mwafotokoza lero kuti olamulira ndi anthu awo alibe kanthu kwa inu. + Ndikuona kuti mukanasangalala Abisalomu akadakhala kuti ali ndi moyo lero, ife tonse tikanafa.” (2 Samuel 19:5-6.)

Unali kuyitana kovutirapo kwa Davide: koma imasonyeza bwino lomwe zotsatirapo za kusaumirira pamene kuli kofunikira ndi vuto la amene ayenera kukhala atate ndi woweruza..

Nanga bwanji za mlingo wa Mulungu? M’Chipangano Chakale muli ndime imene ikukamba za nkhaniyi:

Ngati munthu ali ndi mwana wamakani ndi wopanduka, amene samvera mau a atate wake, kapena mawu a amayi ake, ndi, ngakhale amlanga, sadzamvera iwo; pamenepo atate wake ndi amake adzamgwira iye, ndi kumtulutsa kwa akulu a mudzi wake, ndi ku chipata cha malo ake; ndipo akauze akulu a mudzi wake, Mwana wathu ameneyu ndi wouma khosi ndi wopanduka, sadzamvera mau athu; iye ndi wosusuka, ndi chidakwa. Amuna onse a mumzindawo azimponya miyala: chotero muzichotsa choipacho pakati panu; ndipo Aisrayeli onse adzamva, ndi mantha (Deut 21:18-21).

Timanjenjemera kumapeto kwa chiganizo ichi. Koma tiyenera kuzindikira nkhani imene mawuwa analankhulidwa. Mwambiri, iyi inali nthawi yochedwa Bronze Age. Panalibe chitetezo cha anthu kapena apolisi. Anthu ankadalira achibale awo kapena fuko lawo kuti awathandize ndi kuwateteza ndipo panalibe malo kaamba ka iwo amene anakana kukoka kulemera kwawo. Chotero chisonkhezero cha mwana amene anaumirira kukhala panyumba, kupanga banja lake kuti lizimuthandiza, pamene akukana kugwira ntchito, kunyoza akulu ake ndi kupereka chitsanzo cha khalidwe lauchidakwa kungawononge ubwino wa fuko lonse.. Pazifukwa izi, ndi pangano la makolo onse aŵiri pamodzi ndi akulu a mzindawo, kuphedwa kwake kunaloledwa.

Koma kodi zimenezi zikanakhala zotulukapo zokhumbidwa ndi atate ndi amayi ake, kapena ndi Mulungu? Inde sichoncho! Yesu akuchitira fanizo momveka bwino chikhumbo cha atate cha Mulungu kaamba ka ana ake onse m’fanizo la mwana woloŵerera (Lk. 15:11-32).

Tikhoza kunena tokha, “Koma ngati Mulungu ali wamphamvu yonse ndi wachikondi, Ndithu, angathe kubweza wolakwayo popanda kumuumiriza! Izi zili choncho, anasandutsa Saulo wa ku Tariso kukhala St. Paulo, sanatero? Kapena bwanji sangaletse anthu oipa kuvulaza ena?” Kunena mophweka kwambiri – sizophweka choncho. Chikondi, udindo wamakhalidwe abwino, ufulu wakusankha ndi kudalirana n’zophatikizika mopambanitsa kotero kuti zotsatira za zonse zabwino ndi zoipa zimene timachita zimakhudzanso ena., ndipo nthawi zambiri m'njira zomwe sitinayembekezere. Monga mmene zinalili ndi Davide, zimene zingaoneke ngati zazing’ono, kukhudza ochepa okha, zitha kukhudza masauzande. Timangoona zotsatira za nthawi yochepa, pamene kuli kwakuti Mulungu ali ndi kawonedwe kotambasuka ndi kanthaŵi yaitali. Koma ndi malingaliro omwe amatsitsimutsidwa ndi kudzipereka kwake kusiya zosankha zathu m'manja mwathu momwe angathere. Ngakhale pamene Yesu anauza Saulo, “Nkovuta kwa iwe kuponya zisonga,” adasiyirabe chisankho chomaliza kwa Sauli (Acts 26:13-19).

Nthawi zina, nthawi ndi chifukwa cha zochita za Mulungu zimatidabwitsa. koma, mosiyana ndi ife, amene chidziwitso chake chochepa cha zotsatira zamtsogolo chimatikakamiza kudalira malamulo oyendetsera chilungamo, Mulungu amaona zochitika zonse. Mulungu amamva, ndi anzeru pa, chisalungamo cha dziko lapansi kuposa ife (onani nkhani yanga pa 'Kugwirizana’ wa Mulungu). Ndipo walengeza cholinga chake chosatheka kuti padzakhala kubwezera chilango kwa onse amene akupitiriza kuchita zoipa.; ndi kubwezera onse amene adazunzika mopanda chilungamo. Koma amamvetsetsanso kuti kulowerera kwambiri kapena posakhalitsa pazochitika za anthu ndiko kulepheretsa anthu kukwaniritsa zomwe angathe.. Zingakhale zomvetsa chisoni, kaŵirikaŵiri kokha pamene tiwona kuzunzika ndi chiwonongeko chochititsidwa ndi kudzikonda kwathu kwaumunthu m’pamene timasonkhezereka kufunafuna njira yachikondi imene Mulungu analangiza kuyambira pachiyambi penipeni.. Ndipo ndi pamene tikuona ubwino ndi zofooka za amuna ndi akazi apadera omwe adzuka pakati pathu., kukhala akatswiri odziwika bwino a choonadi ndi chilungamo, kuti tiyambe kumvetsetsa kufunikira kwa a wapamwamba kwambiri ndi kuweruza amene angathe kubweretsa kupambana kotheratu kwa chikondi pa zoipa.