Nei kutendeuka kurapwa kurapwa kunofanirwa kumiswa

Kana chikamu 28 yeLocal Government Act¹ yakabviswa, in 2003, takaudzwa kuti izvi ndezvekudzivirira kushungurudzwa kwengochani. Vamwe vedu takanyevera kuti ichi hachisi chokwadi. Chikamu 28 yakagadzirirwa chete kudzivirira kuparadzirwa kwezvinhu zvakagadzirirwa kukurudzira LGBT maitiro: uye kwete kuti kukanganisa kuedza kukurudzira kushivirira uye kunzwisisa kwevadiki pabonde. Asi isu hatina kufuratirwa. Rimwe zuva, mwanasikana weshamwari yake asati asvika zera akauya kumba achibva kuchikoro achibvunza, “Ndinoziva sei kuti ndiri musikana?” Asi ikozvino, hurumende yeUK yave kuda mhosva chero kuedza kunyengetedza vechidiki kubva munzira yehupenyu hweungochani kana transgender. An official 'consulting’ ends musi wa 4 Kukadzi 2022: asi iyo chinyorwa chaicho chekubvunza inoverenga senge Stonewall manifesto uye inotaura zvine mutsindo izvozvo, “Hurumende kuda kurambidza kutendeuka kurapwa. Hapana zvikonzero zveizvi anomanikidza uye anosemesa maitiro uye humbowo huri pachena kuti haushande.” (Nhanganyaya, chirevo chekuvhura, kusimbisa yangu.)

Usandifungire zvisizvo. Ndakashungurudzwa se‘cissy’ (uye gare gare 'homo') mumakore angu ose okutanga. Ndinonzwisisa zvazvinonzwa kuda kuva 'zvakajairika;’ asi unozviwana asingakwanisi zvachose kuchinja nzira uye anopedzisira ava kufunga kuzviuraya. Zvakadaro, zvangu, zvinhu zvose zvakachinja ndichangova muKristu 14. Ndakaona kuti rudo rwaMwari rwaiva nesimba kupfuura kumanikidza kuita zvepabonde; uye nhasi ndiri sekuru vari muwanano yakanaka! Asi dai ndanga ndakafumurwa nekupopotedzana kwe LGBT propaganda iri kupindirwa muzvikoro zvedu nevezvenhau vevechidiki nhasi ndinokahadzika zvakanyanya dai ndaigona kunge ndakamira ndichipesana nemhepo kwenguva yakakwana kuti ndiwane kuzivikanwa kwangu chaiko..

Izvo zvinondiunza kune yangu yekutanga, uye zvakanyanya kukosha, chikonzero nei kubvunzana uku kuchifanira kuraswa…

The Deep You Go, Kunyanya kuoma kubuda.

Chiitiko changu pachangu ndisati ndatendeuka hazvina kumbonditora kupfuura kuzviedza: asi ndakanga ndakapindwa muropa zvakanyanya uye ndine chokwadi chekuti hapana chandaigona kuita kuti ndisiye izvi. Asi, zvakandishamisa, zvaingoda munamato mumwe wakapererwa, pandakanga ndiri pasi pedombo, kuputsa kubata kwandaive nako. Zvisinei, manzwisisiro angu pabonde nerudo zvakakanganisika zvekuti zvakatora 4 makore ekurega zvachose ndisati ndapora zvakakwana kunyange kusvika funga pamusoro pekugona kwehukama hwepabonde hwemazuva ose.

Dai hurumende ine nzira yayo, Ndingadai ndakava kumanikidzwa kuenderera mberi zvakadzika muhungochani kana transgender mararamiro kune avo 4 makore! Iwe unofunga kuti kungadai kwakaoma sei ipapo?

Mararamiro eLGBT Anosanganisira Njodzi Dzakakura

Zvinowanzotaurwa kuti 'conversion therapy’ inofanira kurambidzwa nokuti inokuvadza; nyaya inowanzoitika ndeyekuti inowedzera mukana wekuzviuraya. The Coventry Report, vatumwa nehurumende kuti vatsigire kubvunzana kwayakaita, inoita chidzidzo chakawanda ichiti pfungwa dzekuzviuraya pakati peavo vaive ne 'conversion therapy’ vaiva kaviri sezvazvakaita pakati pevasina.² (Saizvozvo, kuti kudzidza ndiko kukanganisa kunouraya; uye kuongororazve fungidziro dzayo dzisiridzo dzinoratidza kuti kunyange akakundikana kurapwa kunowanzokonzera kumwe kuderedza zvekuda kuzviuraya.³) Asi kunyangwe chaive chokwadi, izvi zvinofananidzwa sei nenjodzi yekuzviuraya kubva kune LGBT mararamiro? Kuongororwa kwakanyanya kwemubvunzo uyu kune LGB vanhu - ongororo yeUS 'Generations’ Kudzidza data⁴ yakaitwa nevatsvakurudzi ve-pro-LGB - vakagumisa kuti chiitiko chekuzviuraya chakanga chapera kanomwe yakakura kupfuura yevasiri-LGB vezera!⁵ Zvakanyanya kuipa - chidzidzo cheSweden che chaiyo kuzviuraya kunotevera bonde reassignment kuvhiyiwa akawana chiyero chaive kagumi nepfumbamwe yevamwe vavo vasiri LGBT vezera ravo!⁶

Saka nei Consultation ichitarisa kurambidza 'conversion therapy’ pasina kumbotaura nezve njodzi yakakura kwazvo inounzwa nekusimudzirwa kwezvinhu zveLGBT muzvikoro?

50 Makore eMitemo yePro-LGBT Yakundikana

Asi, zvinotova pachena kupfuura nhamba dzakapfava dzekuzviuraya, chidzidzo chakataurwa pa [5] kumusoro kwakagadzirirwa kuyedza tarisiro yekuti kuvandudzwa kwenzvimbo yevanhu veLGB inobva 50 makore ekuvandudzwa kwemutemo angadai akaguma nekuvandudzwa kwehupenyu hwavo. Vakaita izvi nekuenzanisa mhinduro dzeongororo ye 3 mazera akasiyana 'cohorts.’ Asi mhedziso dzavo dzaive (kusimbisa yangu):

“Isu takawana akakosha uye anokatyamadza cohort mutsauko mukubuda kwezviitiko, nenhengo dzechikwata chidiki dzinobuda kare kupfuura nhengo dzemapoka maviri echikuru. Asi takawana Aihwa zviratidzo zvekuti nharaunda yakavandudzwa yemagariro yakadzora kuratidzwa kwavo kune vashoma zvinonetsa-ese ari maviri distal stressors., zvakaita semhirizhonga uye rusarura, uye proximal stressors, senge internalized homophobia uye zvinotarisirwa zvekurambwa. Kushungurudzika kwepfungwa uye kuzviuraya maitiro zvakare aive kwete kuvandudzwa, uye zvechokwadi vaiva worse kuvadiki pane vakuru.

“Takawana kukanganisa kwakajeka kune boka diki rinoratidzika seyakasarudzika kune vanhu vashoma pabonde. Tsvagiridzo yakaratidzawo kuti hapana kurerekera kwakakosha mukushuma mapatani kune ichi chiyero chinogona kutsanangura maitiro emhedzisiro yedu.”

“Zvatinowana zviri pachena zvisingaenderani nekufungidzira.“

Vatsvakurudzi vanoedza kutsanangura zvakawanikwa izvi nekutaura kuti ivo, “taura nezvetsungiriro yedzidziso dzetsika dzakadai sokuvenga ngochani uye kusaenzana kwevarume nevakadzi uye kurambwa uye chisimba kune vezera duku.” Asi, nepo chiri chokwadi kuti LGBT-yakafuridzirwa kupindira kwehurumende inogona kunge yakakonzera hutsinye hweveruzhinji mune dzimwe nzvimbo., mune chikuru kune pfungwa huru yekushivirira kwevanhu kupfuura kare. Yakwana nguva yekuti tatanga kutarisana nemukana iwoyo, pasinei nekuvandudzika kwevanhu pamwe nekuchengetedzwa kwakanyanya kwezvokurapa, vakawanda vanoita ungochani vakangoita kwete vakawana kuzadzika kwavaitarisira.

Chii Chiri Kunyatsoitika?

Kubvunzurudza kunoti, “Zvikumbiro zvedu ndezvepasi rose uye zvinodzivirira munhu wese, zvisinei nehunhu hwavo hwepabonde uye kuti vari transgender here kana kuti kwete.” Asi zvese yetsvagiridzo iri mubepa raro rakanyatso kurairwa, “Kushandura kurapwa: kuongororwa kwehumbowo uye hunhu hwekudzidza” (panozonzi the “Coventry report”) inonangana netsanangudzo inotevera: “Humbowo hunoratidza kuti nzira dzemazuvano dzekushandura kurapa dzinowanzobva pakutenda kuti hunhu hwepabonde hwepabonde uye kuzivikanwa kwetransgender matambudziko ekukura., kupindwa muropa kana matambudziko emweya.” (Coventry report, 1.2.1, “Ndeapi mafomu anotora kurapwa kwekushandura?“) Kukurukurirana kunotaura zvakafanana kuti “Zviri pamutemo kutaura marapirwo anotsigira munhu ari kubvunza kana ari LGBT usa tanga kubva pahwaro hwekuti kuve LGBT chirema kana kushomeka” (Background, 4th zve. (#37), kusimbisa yangu. Kuburitsa mutauro usina kujeka uyu, zvinoreva zvakare kuti chero kurapwa kusingatangi kubva pafungidziro yekuti LGBT maitiro ndeye zvakakwana zvakajairika zvichazova zvisiri pamutemo.) Pane zvachose hapana tsvakurudzo kana hurukuro yezvingangoitika uye njodzi dzepro-LGBT indoctrination. saka, nepo izvi zvisingabvisi zvachose mukana wekuti kuedza kutendeudzira mumwe munhu kumararamiro eLGBT anogona kutongerwa mhosva., zviri pachena kuti chinangwa chekutanga yemutemo wataurwa ndeweku mhosva chero kurapwa kunosimudzira maonero ekuti heterosexuality inofanira kunge iri yedu normal, tarisiro yechisikigo kana kuti default kuhukama hwevanhu pabonde.

Kana izvo zvakanga zvisina kuipa zvakakwana, hurumende yakatsvaga nemaune kuwedzeredza uye kukurudzira rusaruro kune avo vanobvunza dzidziso yeLGBT., kunyanya nekakati wandei branding conversion therapy se “anomanikidza uye anosemesa” uye kutsvaga kuzvibatanidza mupfungwa dzevanhu nemaitiro akadai sekushandiswa kwezvinodhaka kunotsigirwa nehurumende, aversion therapies, ECT, castration (uye kunyange ‘kururamisa’ kubata chibharo) - zvese zvaive, chaizvo chaizvo, yakarambidzwa makumi emakore apfuura! Kunyange kusarudzwa kwezwi, ‘conversion therapy’ rinoratidzika kuva rakanangwa namaune kubatanidza miitiro yakadaro nekuedza kumanikidza vanhu kuchinja zvitendero zvavo zvorudzidziso. SaMike Freer MP, Gurukota rezvekuenzana vakaudza Komiti yeWomen and Equalities nezve 30 Nov 21, “Ndakafunga kuti gwaro rekuonana rakanga rakapfava zvakanyanya. Ndakanzwa kuti yakanga isiri graphic zvakakwana. Njodzi nekutaura nezve kurapa kwekutaura ndeyekuti zvese zvinonzwika zvishoma. Ndiani anogona kuramba kutaura kurapwa? Ndaida kuti ive yakajeka.”

Chinangwa chikuru chemutemo uyu kwete zviito zvemuviri: ndizvo kutenda kuti tinokurudzira vamwe kutevera.

Sei Izvi Zviri Kuitika?

Kutaura kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri, semudiki hapana-akandiudza kuti hunhu hwe LGBT hwaive husina kujairika. Asi zvinongotora kunzwisisa kwekutanga kwebonde uye biology yemunhu kuziva kuti miviri yedu yakagadzirirwa hukama hwepabonde.. Ndakanzwa kusafarira vasikana; uye ndakashora zvikuru kumanikidzwa kwaindisunda kumufambiro waingounza zororo rechinguvana ndisati ndadzoka ndakasimba kupfuura kare.. Mugumisiro wacho waiva, zviri nyore, pfungwa huru yekunyara; uye ndakavenga zvikuru - uye ndakaramba zvakasimba - chero fungidziro yekuti ndaiva 'queer,’ etc.. Mukusangana kwakawanda kwemunhu uye zvimwe zviitiko mumakore apfuura ndakaona kukosha kwekuvhara iyi pfungwa yemukati yekunyara sechinhu chikuru chinokurudzira munharaunda yengochani.. Zvinonyatsorehwa nechidimbu ichi ('Zvakanaka Kwauri') uye kusimudzirwa kwe 'Gay Pride’ zviitiko zvinotaura nyaya imwe chete. Izvi zvinowanzonzi 'internalized homophobia'.: asi mukuita, kazhinji haina kunyanya 'internalized’ se'mukati’ kana kuti kunyange ‘musikirwo.’ Saka kune avo vanonzwa vakavharirwa mumararamiro eLGBT zvinhu zvishoma zvinorwadza sekuyeuchidzwa nezvemanzwiro ekunyara - kunyanya kana waedza 'kurapa.’ uye hazvina kushanda.

Inogona 'Kushandura Therapy’ Basa?

Zvekare, kubva muruzivo rwangu ndinogona kutaura kuti rinodaro; uye runenge ruyamuro bedzi rwomunhu rwandakanga ndawana rwakabva kumushumiri uyo akashinga kutaura mudzi wechinetso changu ndimene ndokundikurudzira kunyengetera.. Asi ndinofanira kutaura kuti kubuda muhungochani kana kuti transexual mararamiro zvingangodaro zvikuru zvakaoma dzimwe nguva. Chimiro chepabonde - chero rudzi rwepabonde - yakasimba zvikuru; uye kana munhu asina chokwadi chokuti upenyu norudo zvinenge zvakawanda kupfuura kungogutsikana pabonde kashoma kuti zvirambe zviripo.. Ini handina 'kutendeuka kwengochani’ Ushumiri; muchokwadi ndakave nekudyidzana kwakawanda nevaimbova vakapindwa muropa nezvinodhaka kupfuura vekare-LGBT's. Asi ini ndagara ndichiudza vaimbopindwa muropa kuti kubuda mararamiro eLGBT kwakaoma pane kusiya zvinodhaka. Akapindwa muropa nezvinodhaka anogona kusarudza kurasa zvinodhaka zvake uye kudzivisa vanosunda: asi ex-LGBT nguva dzose anofanira kutora muviri wavo pamwe chete navo. Ndakaona vaimbova vakapindwa muropa vachidzokera mukutora zvinodhaka kana LGBT maitiro - dzimwe nguva dzinoverengeka vasati vapedzisira vasununguka.. Uye, Ehe saizvozvo, Ndakasangana nevakawanda vasati vawana rusununguko. Asi, Ehe, it anoita shanda⁷; uye ndiri saka ndinotenda Mwari nekundisunungura!

Kurapa Kwakanaka uye Kwakaipa

Zvangu, sekune vese vekare veLGBT vanhu vanozivikanwa kwandiri pachangu, chakanyanya kukosha kwaiva kuziva kuti rudo chairwo harusi rwebonde. Paiva naMwari aindida zvisingaite sezvandaiva, kunyangwe hazvo pane zvinhu muhupenyu hwangu zvaaida kuchinja. Kusimbisa kukosha kwemukati kwemunhu semunhu zvikuru zvakakosha; uye kunyanya kumunhu akajaira kurarama nenyadzi. Asi izvi hazvirevi hazvo kuti tinofanira kutendera zviito zvavo zvose kana kuti kutaura kuti chinhu chiri chose chine chokuita noupenyu hwavo ‘chakanaka.’ Zviri nyore kuwana chiyero chisiri icho uye kukuvadza kana kutsausa pane kubatsira; ndosaka zvakakosha kuenzanisa nzira dzakasiyana dzekurapa uye kudzidza kubva kune zvadzo.

Kazhinji, izvi zvinogona kuwanikwa nekutsinhana kwemahara kwemashoko, maonero nemigumisiro pakati pemasangano enyanzvi. Asi munyaya yekurapa kwekuchinja kwepabonde pane kushomeka kwakajeka kwehumbowo hwekuyedza. Izvi zvinodaro nekuti, kwemakore akawanda, Mapoka eLGBT akatarisana nekuzvidza uye kunyararidza avo vaiti shanduko inogoneka. Inenge hapana tsvakiridzo yakaitwa yaitora nhoroondo yeakasiyana nzira dzekupa mazano uye zvinokurudzira zveavo vaitsvaga kurapwa.. Kunyangwe ongororo yeGenerations yakangosiyanisa pakati pekurapwa kubva kune vasiri vechitendero nevatungamiriri vezvitendero uye - zvakanyanya - yakaganhurira kuongororwa kwayo akakundikana kurapwa nekusanganisira chete avo parizvino anonzi LGB. Asi, kubvira 2015, apo LGB lobbyists vakatanga kunyengetedza ruzhinji rwemasangano ekuraira mazano kuti asayine kune yavo yakakurudzirwa 'Memorandum of Understanding.’⁸, mamiriro acho ezvinhu ave akaipa zvikuru. Chero murapi anoshinga kupikisa LGBT uzivi ikozvino kurambidzwa kubva kuhunyanzvi hwekuita, kana kutoshambadza mabasa avo. Izvi zvaita kuti tsvakurudzo yakakwana isagoneke.

Mapoka evarapi vasinganyore kuMoU achiripo, Ehe saizvozvo, zvakadai se International Federation for Therapeutic and Counselling Sarudzo (ifcc); uyo achangobva kuita hurukuro yesainzi muLondon, kufumura zvikanganiso zviri pachena zvesainzi mumushumo wehurumende weCoventry. Nzvimbo yeiyi yaifanira kuchengetwa yakavanzika kusvika paminiti yekupedzisira nekuda kwengozi yekuparadza nevanorwira LGBT.: asi zvakarekodhwa zvezvirongwa zvino zvinogona kuonekwa here.

Kubva pakaunzwa MoU, imwezve shanduko yakafemerwa yeboka-boka raitwa kwairi: izvo zvave kukonzera kupatsanuka kwakakomba pakati pemapoka akasiyana eLGB neLGBT. Kuti uwane nhoroondo yakazara yekuti zvese izvi zvakaitwa sei, zvisinei nekushaikwa kwekubvumirana kwechokwadi kwesainzi, ona here.

Zvirokwazvo, kwave kune zviitiko apo kurapa kwakaratidza kusabetsera; nekuda kwedzimwe nguva nekuda kwemaitiro asina kunaka ekurapa, dzimwe nguva kutadza kunzwisisa kuoma kwe, uye nguva inodiwa, nzira yekuporesa uye dzimwe nguva kushayikwa kwekutevera muchiitiko chekukundikana. Asi, saSullins’ kuongorora kwakaratidza, kunyange akakundikana kurapwa kwaiwanzoita kuderedzwa kuzviuraya (zvichida nokusimbisa kutendiswa kwomunhu pamusoro pokuzivikanwa kwavo kwechokwadi). Pane zvikonzero zvakasimba zvekukurudzira tsvakiridzo yakakwana yekumisa nzira dzakakodzera uye dzinobudirira dzekuraira mune chero mamiriro akapihwa uye nekutsvaga kuve nechokwadi chekuti vatori vechikamu vanoziviswa nemazvo nezvekugona kwezvose zviri zviviri kubudirira uye kukundikana kwechero kurapwa.. Panofanira kuva negadziriro yehurumende, kana kunyange matsotsi, zvirango kana vanhu vakarevesa masevhisi avanopa, kana kuti muripo wetsaona kana kuregeredza; saka pane nyaya yakanaka yekumisikidza yakavhurika uye inozvidavirira yekudzora hurongwa. Kurapa kuseri kwemugwagwa kunogona chete kuwedzera njodzi yetsaona. Zvikumbiro zvehurumende zvichava nemhedzisiro yekutitadzisa kudzidza chokwadi nguva isati yakwana.

Vanofanira kukurudzirwa here Vana mu LGBT mararamiro?

Memorandum of Understanding inotsvaga kurambidza chero kurapa uko “inoratidza fungidziro yekuti chero hunhu hwepabonde kana kuzivikanwa kwemurume nemukadzi hunofanirwa kune chero humwe.” Zvakadaro humbowo hwesainzi huri pachena kuti genome yemunhu ndeye zvakagadziriswa kufarira hukama hwepabonde. Pasi pazvose normal mamiriro, vanhu vane XY kana XX chromosome musanganiswa, zvichiita kuti pave nemaitiro emuviri wechirume kana wechikadzi, zvakateerana. Saizvozvo, bonde renyama ndizvo kazhinji yakatarwa pakuzvarwa: asi mamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana, kunyanya panguva yekuzvitakura nekuyaruka, dzimwe nguva zvinogona kutungamirira kukuratidza hunhu hwevakomana kana kuti kudzvinyirirwa kwemaitiro akajairika. Izvi zvemuviri intersex mamiriro haawanzo⁹, kazhinji zvisina kunaka, uye zvingada mushonga wekugadzirisa kana kuvhiyiwa; zvichiita kuti zvive zvine musoro kuzvitsanangura sezvirema kana zvikanganiso.

Kunyanya panguva yekuyaruka, zvakajairika kuti vana vabvunze kuti nei vakaberekwa vari varume kana vakadzi. Kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti vamwe 60-70% ita kudaro kusvika kumwero wakati: asi ruzhinji ruchava nemuviri wechirume kana wechikadzi unoshanda; uye vachange vagamuchira izvi pavanenge vava nemakore okuma20, pasina kupindira kwekurapa. Zvisinei, kuyaruka ndiyo zvakare nguva apo chero zvisizvo zviri pachena zvemukati mesex mamiriro anogona kuratidza: saka zvakakosha kuti hunyanzvi hwekuongorora masevhisi avepo kana izvi zvichifungidzirwa.

Kunze kwehunhu hwekutanga hwepabonde hwemurume nemukadzi, majini edu anotipa zvakasiyana-siyana zvakasiyana-siyana zvechipiri, kusanganisira zvibvumirano zviduku zvechimiro chemuviri uye ruvara, kusiyana kukuru kwehurefu, uremu nesimba, acuity of senses, mano epfungwa uye kunyange ‘musikirwo’ maitiro. Pane zvakare humbowo hwekuti mamwe echipiri ane chekuita nebonde ane hukama nemajini ayo asingagare mu X kana Y chromosomes.. Zvimwe zveizvi zvinogona kukanganisa maitiro, senge 'kusundidzira’ reflex, izvo zvine zvimwe zvazvinoita pahunhu hwepabonde uye ruzivo. Uye kune mamwe maitiro akawanda evanhu, sekuda kwekutora njodzi, hunhu hwehasha, tsitsi, etc., izvo zvinowanzobatanidzwa nebonde rimwe chete pane imwe uye zvichida zvine genetic component.

Mhedzisiro ndeye kuwanda kwemaitiro ane hukama nemajini kubva ku'effeminate’ varume ‘kuhura’ vakadzi. Aya marudzi akasiyana-siyana akajairika uye akajairika: asi kunyanyisa kufungidzira kwetsika kunogona kuguma nekushorwa kweavo vane musanganiswa weunhu hwechipiri hunowanzoitika kune vakomana kana vasikana uye zvinotungamira mukubvunzana nezve 'chaiye munhu iyeye.’ murume kana mukadzi. Kusvika pakadai, Kupokana kwe LGBT kune stereotyping yepabonde hakuna pasina chikonzero chinonzwisisika. Asi hapana humbowo hwekuti kune chero 'gay genes.’ Hapana imwe yeinozivikanwa genetic misiyano, kunze kweXY chromosomes, zvakamboratidzwa kuva zviratidzo zvinovimbika zvezvepabonde. Kunyangwe panyaya yemapatya akafanana nemagene, kana munhu akasarudza kuchinja bonde, mikana yeumwe kuita kudaro ishoma pane 1 in 3.

Izvi zvinodaro nekuti chinoita kuti vanhu vasiyane semhando ndeyedu kuchinjika. Tinozviziva pachedu, yevamwe, zvakatipoteredza uye zvatingaite pazviri; kusvika pamwero watinogona override manzwiro edu emuzvarirwo pazvinenge zvakakodzera uye kutsvaga nzira dzekushandisa zvisina kunaka kana kubhadhara simba redu remuzvarirwo uye utera.. Uye, sezvatinokura, hatina kungoumbwa nemajini nemamiriro edu ezvinhu; tinosvika pakuziva kuti hupenyu hwedu kazhinji hunoumbwa zvakanyanya nehwedu sarudzo uye nezvatiri tendai kuva chokwadi.

Mukubatana uku, zvakakosha kubvuma kushanda kwekurerwa, kunyanya kukosha kwekuregeredzwa kwevabereki, kushungurudzika uye kushungurudzwa pabonde. Mwana achaita maererano nemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, vachitsvaka kunyaradzwa, rudo uye kubvuma; uye izvi zvinogona kutungamirira nyore nyore kugadzwa kwemaitiro etsika uye zvitendero zvinogona kukonzera kukanganisa kwenguva refu kwekuda kurara kwemwana..

Migumisiro yekunyengetedza mwana ane hutano hwepabonde kuti atende kuti anofanira kuchinja kune imwe pabonde injodzi. Kunosanganisira kusabereka zvachose, kuparadzwa kwemitezo ine hutano uye nekutsiviwa kwayo neinotsiva iyo isingambo nyatso kutevedzera chiitiko chemuviri chekuva nemuviri wemurume kana murume.. Hakushamisi kuti mwero wokuzviuraya wakakwira zvinokatyamadza kudaro! Kana chero nzira yekushandura kurapa kunofanirwa kuitwa zvisiri pamutemo, zvingava izvi!

Zvakadini neungochani? Iyi inyaya yakaoma zvikuru kugadzirisa; sezvo zvichibva zvakanyanya pane izvo munhu anotenda nezvavo. Vanhu vazhinji vanoda kuita ungochani vanonetseka nekunyara nekuti vanogona kuona kuti zvinopesana nemasikirwo avo.. Vanogona kubva vanyengedzwa nyore nyore ne “Ndiri bho – Ndingori mumuviri usiri iwo” huzivi hwe transgender extremists. Kana, kana mumwe munhu achitenda hupenyu hwake kuti mhedzisiro yemukana usingaoni, vangangosarudza chero sarudzo inovapa mufaro mukuru. Asi kana mumwe munhu achitenda kuti chimiro chavo chenyama chinoitirwa kuratidza chinangwa chaMwari cheupenyu hwavo: zvino zvakakosha kuti utange kubvunza mimwe mibvunzo yakadzama pamusoro pehukama pakati perudo chairwo uye kukwezva pabonde (ona Chinangwa cheRudo.) Asi ikozvino ndinongodzokorora izvozvo, kana mumwe munhu achida kusununguka kubva mukumanikidzwa pabonde, ivo vanofanira kutanga vawana musiyano pakati pevatano norudo rwoumwari: uye kuti Mwari anovada zvikuru, kunyangwe nezvikanganiso zvavo zvese!

Dambudziko reHuman Rights Nightmare

Hurumende inoti hurongwa hwayo hunoremekedza kodzero dzevanhu. Muchokwadi, idambudziko rekodzero dzevanhu…

Kodzero dzeMwana

Kukurukurirana uku kunodoma mutemo weEquality Act 2010, iyo inobata chete nekodzero dzevanhu vakuru: asi kodzero dzevana vari inodzivirirwa zviri pamutemo pasi peChibvumirano cheUN pamusoro peKodzero dzeMwana uye neEuropean Convention on Human Rights (ECHR).

Hurumende yakazivisa chinangwa chekurambidza zvese kushandura kurapa kwevari pasi pe-18s kune mukana, zvichienderana nemamiriro ezvinhu, kutyora chero kana zvese zvinotevera zvinyorwa zveUN: 3 - zvinodiwa nemwana, 5 - kuremekedza kodzero dzevabereki uye hupenyu hwemhuri, 12 - kuzvisarudzira, 13 - rusununguko rwekutaura uye kuwana ruzivo, 14 - rusununguko rwekufunga nechitendero, 24 – utano, 37 – ane utsinye, kubatwa zvisina hunhu kana kuzvidzikisira uye 39 - kupora kubva mukushungurudzwa. Hurumende iri kuyedza kubvuta kodzero idzi nekuzvigadza semutongi wega wezvinonakira mwana..

Uyezve, kana hurumende ichifunga kuti mitemo yayo inopindirana neECHR, zvino inofanira kufunga kuti chirevo chayo chinopesana zvakananga nemutemo weFinland wakanangana nesainzi, inotaura kuti, “Kurapa kunofanira kuvavarira kudzikisa kana kugadzirisa gender dysphoria nekuvavarira kuderedza kana kugadzirisa predisposing kusagadzikana, uye kusachinja miviri kusvika kurapwa kwepfungwa uye 25 zera."

Rusununguko Rwechitendero Nehana.

Mamiriro egumbeze ezvakarongwa 'kutaura kurapa’ ban, zvinokanganisa kune chero ani zvake anotsunga kutaura kana kuraira pamusoro peakapararira LGBT dzidziso dzepabonde., kana zvekunamata, zvikonzero zvehunhu kana zvepfungwa. Vimbiso dzinopikisa dzine kukosha kushoma, kupihwa kutsunga kunozivikanwa kwevanonyanyisa LGBT kushungurudza avo vavasingawirirane navo nematare emutemo., kutyisidzira, censorship, etc., zvisinei nekodzero yepamutemo yezvavanotaura. Kwete izvozvo chete; asi kuedza kwakananga kurambidza shumiro yemunamato - uye chero kuedza kuverengera matambudziko ezvepabonde kune zvikonzero zvemweya - kuita uku kurwiswa pachena kwerusununguko rwechitendero nehana.. Kuti uwane mhinduro yakadzama, yakasainwa nepamusoro 1,000 Vashumiri vechiKristu, ona here. Asi cherechedza kuti kufunga kwakafanana kunoshanda kune zvimwe zvitendero zvakawanda uye, zvirokwazvo, kune vapi navapi vanodavira ukoshi hwenheyo dzetsika nokuda kwenzanga yakabudirira.

DzeBonde uye DzeBonde

Zvikumbiro zvehurumende, uku vachizviti vane maoko akaenzana, zvimwe asi. Ivo vakanangana nekusimudzira kodzero dze LGBT vashoma (kodzero dzinoremekedzwa nevakawanda vedu) pamutengo weavo, muhana yakanaka yose nechinangwa, kusabvumirana nemaitiro aya - uye kunyanya pamutengo wevashoma vashoma avo, kuravira mararamiro eLGBT, zvidemba kuita izvozvo uye ndinoshuva kuzvisiya.

Izvi zviri nyore kwete kururamisira, hurumende ine mutoro kana kuremekedzwa kwekodzero dzevanhu; uye Ndakagadzirira kutarisana nejeri pane kuzviisa pasi pemutemo wakadaro.

Kuparadza Democracy

Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha pane izvi zvese, inoenderera mberi, edza kurambidza 'conversion therapy’ ndiyo nzira iyo yakajairwa maitiro edemocracy akabirwa nevasiri vedemocracy uye pachena-vasingazvidavirire mapoka ekumanikidza., zvakaita se Stonewall, Global Equality Caucus, uye ILGA World. Ichi chi, Ehe saizvozvo, kwete kutaura kuti masangano akadai haana kodzero yekunzwikwa, uye maonero avo achitorwa. Asi hurumende dzinofanirwa kungwarira kuti dzisaratidze rusaruro kune rimwe boka revatsigiri kana rimwe: uye ndizvo chaizvo zvanga zvichiitika. Kunyangwe kusuma kwegurukota mukubvunzana kunoburitsa pachena kukosha kukuru kuri kutariswa nehurumende kune iri kuuya., ‘Ndakachengeteka Kuva Ini’ musangano, ichatungamirwa neGlobal Equality Caucus’ Nick Herbert (uyo akagadzwawo nePM seNhume yakakosha yeUK pakodzero dzeLGBT). Ko zvangoitikawo here kuti musangano uri muna June, uye “Icho chinangwa cheHurumende kuendesa kurambidzwa nekukurumidza sezvinobvira uye isu tichange tichigadzirira gwaro reBill reChitubu cha2022.” ?

Asi kuwanda kweStonewall kuseri-kwe-zviono pesvedzero mukunyengedza hurumende nemasangano everuzhinji kwakanyanya kune chekuita.. Kutevera akati wandei ekutaura kwekunetsekana nezve kugona kwaStonewall kusajairika kupesvedzera mutemo weveruzhinji, BBC Radio Ulster's 'Nolan Inoongorora’ program yakatanga an 18 mwedzi kuferefeta zvichikonzera nhevedzano ye 11 podcasts, iyo inogona kuwanikwa pari zvino BBC Inzwi. Iwo chaiwo ane-mawoko asi akaoma-kurova akatevedzana anoongorora maitiro akawanda eStonewall seboka rekutambira, chipangamazano nyanzvi uye muongorori wemashandiro akaita kuti ikwanise kushandura zvakanyanya marongero emapazi ehurumende, vashandirwi vakuru uye midhiya (kusanganisira BBC) kunyange kupfuura chiyero chiripo chemutemo. Kwete izvozvo chete; asi Stonewall yawana pundutso huru kubva kune zvese zviri zviviri zvipo zvehurumende uye miripo yemasevhisi ayo. Yakaisawo zviga zvegaging pamasangano ehurumende anovatadzisa kuzivisa veruzhinji nezve 'zvakavanzika.’ zano rayakapa! Zvichitevera zvakazarurwa izvi chitsama chemitumbi iyi chabva, kana kuti vari kufunga kusiya, ayo 'Diversity Champions’ chirongwa.

Musi waNovember 13 2021 zvose zviri zviviri Nguva uye Tumira PaIndaneti akatakura mushumo kuti Nikki da Costa, uyo muna Nyamavhuvhu akasiya chigaro chake saBoris Johnson director wezvemitemo, akanga anyunyuta kuti, “Boka revapi vemazano epamusoro aBoris Johnson vari kubvumira mutemo wehurumende pamusoro pekodzero dzekutapurwa kuti dzitaurirwe naStonewall.” Akataura izvozvo “imba yekutandarira ine simba muNo 10” yaikanganisa kodzero dzevakadzi, kunyange kusvika “achisarudza zvakaonekwa naJohnson mumabhokisi ake matsvuku uye kuramba kuronga misangano nevanhu vaizopa pfungwa dzinopikisa.” The Mail inomutora achidaro, ”Hakuna rimwe sangano - hapana bhizinesi, kana rudo, kunyangwe yakakura sei - inogona kutora runhare kune chipangamazano akasarudzika akagara kunze kwehofisi yaBoris Johnson uye kuita kuti munhu iyeye ataure zvakananga nemutungamiriri.” “Asi ndiyo mhando yekuwana iyo Stonewall ina.” Munguva pfupi yapfuura, musi wa 6 Ndira 2022, iyo Telegraph yakashuma kuti Stonewall “yakagamuchira £ 1.25 miriyoni mumitero yakabhadharwa nevateresi munguva yakapfuura 18 mwedzi”, plus “mari inodarika miriyoni paunzi pagore idzo sangano rerudo rave richiwana kubva kumasangano ehurumende” kuti uve nhengo ye 'Diversity Champions’ program.

Izvi Zvakanga zvisiri (uye Zvakadaro Haisi) A Genuine Consultation

On 30 Nov 21, paakabvunzwa kuti sei nguva yekubvunzana pakutanga yaive pfupi, Mr Freer, uyo saMinister for Equalities ari kuita musangano uyu pari zvino, akaudza Women and Equalities Committee, “Kutaura chokwadi, nekuti ndeye 'sei', kwete 'kana'. Kukurukurirana kwakawanda kweHurumende kunotanga kubva panzvimbo: ‘Toita here izvi? Ndeapi maonero ako?’ Sarudzo iyoyo yakatorwa. Tiri kuenderera mberi nekurambidza kutendeuka kurapa…” Sachigaro vakabva vabvunza, “Uri kunetsekana here kuti vamwe vevakakosha vane chekuita vanogona kupotsa nekuti nzira yekubvunzana ipfupi, kana kuti une chivimbo chokuti vose—” Mr Freer vakapindura, “Ndine chokwadi chekuti munhu wese ane maonero ekugovana akatowana iwo maonero ekugovana.” Izvi, Ehe saizvozvo, haitsananguri kuti avo vasina kumboona mibvunzo yekubvunzurudza vaigona sei kugadzirira mhinduro yakakwana muhafu yenguva yakajairwa., kunyanya sezvo nhau dzekubvunzana dzakavigwa mukumhanya kweKisimusi isati yasvika uye fungidziro nezveCovid. Panguva iyoyo, kubvunzana kwacho kwaizopera 4 mazuva: asi, zvichitevera kutyisidzirwa kweJudicial Review neboka rekodzero “Nyaya Dzebonde”, iyi yakawedzerwa kusvika 4 Kukadzi '22. Asi kusimbirira kwehurumende kuti vachaenderera mberi zvisinei hakuna kushanduka.

Tingamisa sei Juggernaut iyi?

Iyo webhusaiti Petitions yehurumende inobvumira chero mugari weBritish kana mugari wekuUK nerutsigiro rwe 5 vamwe kuti vatange chikumbiro; kunze kwekuti inoenderana nemitemo yekukodzera yehurumende, defined here. Kana chikumbiro chikawana 10,000 masiginicha, hurumende ichaita mhinduro yakarongeka. Kana zvikawana 100,000 masiginicha, richazeyewa kuti rizeye muParamende. Zvisinei, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti ndizvo kwete vanotenderwa vane zvichemo zvinopfuura chimwe panguva ipi zvayo zvinoita zvakafanana kana zvakafanana.

Chikumbiro kuna “Kanzura zvirongwa zvekurambidza shanduko yekurapa”yatovako panzvimbo, here“. Asi mashoko acho haana kujekesa kukomba kwenyaya yacho: uye harina kuziviswa, kuunganidza chete 20 masiginicha mune yawo yekutanga 3 mwedzi! Izvi zvinoshamisa chose, sezvo kune masangano akawanda uye vanhu vanoratidza kunetseka kwakadzama nezvezvinangwa zvehurumende; asi vazhinji vanozeza kusaina ichi chikumbiro nekuti hachibudisi pfungwa dzacho nenzira yavanoda. Asi, mushure mekuzivisa kushamwari dzangu, nhamba yemasiginicha yakapetwa kakapetwa kana 4 mazuva! Mazwi echikumbiro haagone kuchinjwa izvozvi; asi hazvina kunyanya kukosha, sechikumbiro hachigone manikidza hurumende kuita zvinenge zvakumbirwa. Asi izvozvo anogona tumira chiratidzo chakasimba chekuti iyi inyaya ine hanya neruzhinji; uye hurumende inofanirwa kumira uye kuongorora zvayakataura.

Tine zvishoma pane 2 mavhiki ekutora matanho kudzivirira vana vedu kubva mukumwe kushungurudzwa kwemasangano. Kukurukurirana kunopera musi wa 4 Kukadzi; uye hurumende inotarisira kuenderera mberi neaya akanyanya Stonewall-maitiro matanho nekukurumidza sezvinobvira mushure meizvozvo. Saka, Ndiri kubvunza shamwari dzangu dzese uye chero ani zvake anogovana zvandinonetseka nazvo, kuti vasangosaina chikumbiro ichi pachavo asi kuti tumira chikumbiro ichi kushamwari dzavo sekuchimbidza. Ungabatana neni here mune izvi? (N.B. Kusaina, unofanirwa kunge uri mugari weUK kana mugari. Iwe uchakumbirwa kupindura kune email yekusimbisa: asi zita rako harizoshambadzwe.)

MIRA KUDYA! Over 2,500 makurukota akambosaina gwaro remubatanidzwa kumusangano wehurumende. Kunetseka kwechiKristu ikozvino kukumbira maKristu ese kuti vanoita zvavanoda ivo pachavo kubvunzana, uye zvakare wedzera mazita avo kuvashumiri’ tsamba. Ndinokukurudzira kuti uitewo zvose zviri zviviri. Izvi hazvisi zvekuti ndiani ane chikumbiro chakanakisa: ndezvekuita zvese zvatinogona kuchengetedza vana vedu nekodzero dzedu dzose dzinokosha.

Mashoko omuzasi

1. Mugwaro rekutanga rechinyorwa chino, iyi yakadanwa zvisirizvo se‘Mutemo Wedzidzo.’ Chikamu 28 chaitove clause yeLocal Government Act yairambidza (a) kanzuru inopihwa mari kusimudzirwa zvechingochani uye (b) kudzidzisa muzvikoro zvakachengetwa izvo kusimudzirwa ‘kugamuchirwa kweungochani sekunyepedzera mhuri ukama’ (i.e.. nechinangwa chokurera vana).
2. “Kuita Zvepabonde Kuedza Kuchinja, Zvakaipa Zvakaitika Muuduku, uye Kuzviuraya Ideation uye Kuedza Pakati Pepabonde Vashoma Vakuru, Nyika dzakabatana, 2016-2018", rakabudiswa pamhepo neAmerican Journal yePublic Health (AJPH), 10 Chikumi 2020.
3. Sullins, Donald, DzeBonde Kuchinja Kuedza (SOCE) *DERERERA* Kuzviuraya: Kugadzirisa Nhoroondo Yenhema Yekutsvakurudza (Kurume 16, 2021). Inowanikwa paSSRN: https://ssrn.com/abstract=3729353 kana http://dx.doi.org/10.2139/ssrn.3729353.
4. “Zvizvarwa. Chidzidzo chehupenyu nehutano hwevanhu veLGB munharaunda inoshanduka ", chinyorwa chepamhepo naIlan Meyer, et al., inosvikika pa http://www.generations-study.com.
5. Meyer IH, Russell ST, Hammack PL, Frost DM, Wilson BDM (2021) “Minority stress, kushungurudzika, uye kuedza kuzviuraya mumapoka matatu evanhu vakuru vanoita zvepabonde: A U.S. sampuli yemukana." PLoS IMWE 16(3):e0246827.
6. Vanopa C, Lichtenstein P, Boman M, Johansson VAT, Langstrom N, and said. (2011) “Kutevera Kwenguva Yakareba Kwevanhu Vakasiyana-siyana Vari Kuita Bonde Reassignment Surgery: Cohort Kudzidza muSweden.” PLoS IMWE 6(2): e16885. doi:10.1371/journal.pone.0016885 https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0246827
7. “X-OUT-LOUD - Emerging Ex-LGBT Voices” Features 44 nyaya dzakasiyana, kubva 22 nyika, yevarume nevakadzi vanosiya LGBT kuzivikanwa, rakabudiswa neCore Issues Trust, https://store.core-issues.org/product/x-out-loud-emerging-ex-lgbt-voices/.
8. Chinangwa chikuru cheMemorandamu yeKunzwisisa iyi, “kuchengetedzwa kwevanhu kuburikidza nekuzvipira kugumisa tsika ye 'conversion therapy' muUK.” Ichi chi, “izwi amburera yenzira yekurapa, kana chero modhi kana maonero emunhu anoratidza fungidziro yekuti chero hunhu hwepabonde kana chitupa chinozivikanwa pane chero, uye iyo inoedza kuunza shanduko yezvepabonde kana kuzivikanwa kwemurume nemukadzi, kana kutsvaga kudzvanyirira matauriro emunhu ezvepabonde kana kuzivikanwa kwemurume nemukadzi pachikonzero ichocho.” (MoU paras 1 & 2).
9. Genetic-induced ungochani kana transgender maitiro haawanzo kuwanikwa nekuti vatakuri vemajini akadaro havawanzo kubereka..